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Here’s how to level up, straight from a world-renowned sex coach.

Elevate Your Bedroom Game with Emily Morse

Here’s how to level up, straight from a world-renowned sex coach.

Who is Emily Morse?

Emily Morse is a doctor of human sexuality, best-selling author, and the powerhouse behind the hit podcast “Sex With Emily”. Known for her bold, uncensored takes on sex, relationships, and intimacy, she’s spent over a decade teaching men how to step up their game in the bedroom—and beyond.  With over 635,000 Instagram follower and features in The New York Times, Forbes, and The Times of London, Morse isn’t just another influencer—she’s a pioneer in sexual confidence and communication. If you’ve been coasting through relationships on autopilot, it’s time to wake up and level up. Emily’s advice is all about unlocking next-level confidence, pleasure, and connection, so let’s get into it.

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How to Elevate Your Bedroom Game Like a High-Value Man

Ditch the Ego—Learn to Listen

Most men assume they know what they’re doing in the bedroom. Most men are wrong. Great sex isn’t about proving how skilled you are—it’s about tuning in, adapting, and responding to your partner’s needs.

Actionable Tip: Next time you’re in bed, slow down and pay attention. Ask her, “Does this feel good?,” or “You like that?”—but better still and more importantly, watch her body language. Moans, breathing patterns, and movements will tell you everything you need to know, without asking.

Stop Rushing to the Finish Line

Newsflash: Foreplay isn’t an optional warm-up—it’s the main event. If you’re treating it like a chore, you’re already losing points. Women take longer to build arousal, and if you master anticipation, teasing, and control, you’ll blow her mind.

Actionable Tip: Take twice as long on foreplay as you think you need to. Slow things down, build suspense, and let her crave what’s next. Edge her closer—then pull back. This isn’t a sprint; it’s an art form.

Upgrade Your Communication—Before, During, and After

Silent, passive bedroom performance? Weak. Confident men talk, ask, and lead. Emily emphasizes that the key to great sex is knowing what your partner wants and guiding the experience with clarity and confidence.
Actionable Tip: Start outside the bedroom. Drop hints about what you want to do later. Text her, “Can’t stop thinking about last night” or “Tonight, I’m going to make you forget your name.” Inside the bedroom, use a deep, controlled voice and let her know how much she turns you on.

Focus on Her Entire Body, Not Just the Obvious

Too many guys go straight for the gold without appreciating the full experience. Women’s bodies are wired for pleasure in more ways than you think. Emily teaches that men who take their time exploring every part of their partner’s body create deeper attraction and better sex.  Actionable Tip: Kiss, touch, and tease her neck, ears, wrists, lower back—everywhere before even thinking about going further. The more you build her up, the more intense the experience will be.

Build Anticipation Outside the Bedroom

The best lovers don’t just turn things on when the clothes come off—they set the stage long before that. Emily emphasizes that real attraction and intimacy are built throughout the day.
Actionable Tip: Text her something unexpected. Whisper in her ear when you’re in public. Make her laugh, tease her, challenge her. The better the buildup, the more explosive the payoff.

Confidence is the Real Aphrodisiac

Women aren’t attracted to just physical skills—they’re drawn to certainty, presence, and leadership. If you hesitate, doubt yourself, or overthink in the moment, it kills the vibe.  Actionable Tip: Own your moves. Make decisions with confidence. Hold strong eye contact. Lead the experience without waiting for permission. If you second-guess yourself, she’ll feel it—so step up and take charge.

 

Final Thoughts: Own the Experience, Own the Connection

Emily Morse’s mission is simple: stop settling for average sex and start unlocking next-level intimacy. The difference between a forgettable experience and a mind-blowing one? Your ability to be present, aware, and in control.

Forget the clichés. Upgrade your communication, slow down, and take charge. The best lovers aren’t the ones who rely on tricks or routines—they’re the ones who listen, lead, and bring raw, unapologetic confidence.

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